Want to Travel Solo But Scared? 10 Things Every Woman Should Know

You’ve been saving the destination on Instagram.

You’ve looked at flights.

You’ve probably even made a Pinterest board.

But there’s one problem…

You don’t have anyone to go with.

Maybe your friends are in relationships, your workmates can’t get the time off, or everyone keeps saying “we should do a trip together!” but somehow nobody ever actually books it.

And now you’re wondering:

Could I actually travel on my own?

The answer is: you can.

But you also don’t have to jump straight into a completely solo trip if that feels like too much.

At Dear Community, we believe travelling solo can actually be one of the easiest ways to meet new people — especially when you’re surrounded by other women who are doing exactly the same thing.

So, if you’ve been thinking about travelling but feeling a little nervous, here are 10 things we want you to know.

1. “What If I’m Not Safe?”

This is probably one of the biggest worries women have about travelling alone.

And honestly, it’s completely understandable.

Travelling somewhere unfamiliar means being a little more aware of your surroundings, doing some research before you go and making sensible decisions about where you stay and how you get around.

But being cautious doesn’t mean you have to be scared.

Start small. Share your itinerary with someone at home. Keep important contacts handy. Trust your instincts.

And remember, being a solo traveller doesn't mean you have to be alone every minute of the trip.

That’s where travelling with a group of women can make such a difference.

2. “What If I Get Lonely?”

We think this one gets talked about the least.

You might imagine yourself sitting alone at dinner while everyone else is travelling with their best friend.

But solo travel can actually be one of the easiest ways to meet people.

When you’re travelling alone, you’re often much more open to saying hello to the person next to you, joining an activity or starting a conversation with someone you’ve just met.

And sometimes, the person you meet on day one ends up being the person you’re still messaging months later.

3. “What If I Don’t Know Anyone?”

This is exactly why we love girls trips.

You don't necessarily need to find a group of friends before you go.

You can come solo and meet everyone there.

Walking into a trip where you don't know anyone can feel intimidating, but remember that everyone else is in the same position.

You might arrive not knowing a single person and leave with a whole new group chat.

4. “What If Something Goes Wrong?”

Getting sick, missing a bus, losing your luggage or taking the wrong turn isn't exactly the glamorous side of travel.

But things don't always go to plan — even when you're travelling with friends.

The important thing is knowing what to do if something does go wrong.

Have travel insurance, keep copies of important documents and make sure someone at home knows where you are.

And if you're travelling as part of a group, you also have people around you to help figure things out.

5. “What If I Get Lost?”

Google Maps exists for a reason. 😂

You might take the wrong train, walk in the wrong direction or accidentally end up somewhere you didn't plan to go.

And while it can be stressful in the moment, these little mishaps often become the stories you laugh about later.

You don't need to know exactly what you're doing every second.

Sometimes you just need to figure out the next step.

6. “What If I’m Too Awkward to Make Friends?”

We promise you’re not the only one thinking this.

The best thing about travelling with other women is that you already have something in common.

You’re all there because you wanted to travel, meet people and experience something new.

So start with the easy questions:

Where are you from?

Have you travelled here before?

What made you book the trip?

Before you know it, you're talking about your lives, your travel plans and what you're doing tomorrow.

7. “What If Everyone Else Is Younger / Older / Different From Me?”

There is no right age, personality or type of person for travelling.

You don't need to fit a particular mould to be a traveller.

One of the best things about meeting people through travel is that you get to connect with women you probably wouldn't have met in your everyday life.

Different backgrounds, different cities, different jobs — but you're all there for the same experience.

8. “What If I Can’t Afford It?”

Travel doesn't have to mean booking the most expensive hotel, eating at restaurants every night and doing every activity available.

Set a realistic budget before you go and work out what matters most to you.

Maybe you're happy to save on accommodation so you can spend more on experiences.

Maybe you're a beach girl who doesn't need to spend much at all.

Or maybe your dream trip is a little more luxurious.

There isn't one right way to travel.

9. “What If I Regret Going?”

Here's the thing.

You might be nervous before you go.

You might have a moment where you think, “What have I actually done?”

And then you arrive.

You meet someone.

You see something you've never seen before.

You have a conversation with a stranger that turns into a friendship.

You watch the sunset somewhere completely new.

And suddenly, you realise why you booked the trip in the first place.

10. You Don’t Have to Travel Completely Alone

This is the biggest one.

Solo travel doesn't have to mean travelling completely alone.

You can book a trip by yourself and still have people around you.

You can arrive without knowing anyone and leave with new friends.

You can have independence while still having a group to explore with.

And honestly, we think that's one of the best parts.

So… What’s Actually Stopping You?

If you've been waiting for your friends to be free, waiting for the “perfect” time or waiting until you feel completely confident, you could be waiting a very long time.

You don't have to feel 100% ready.

You just have to be willing to give it a go.

Whether that's booking your first solo weekend away, joining a group trip or simply going somewhere you've never been before, there's a whole world waiting outside your comfort zone.

And if the thought of doing it completely alone feels a little too much?

Bring yourself. We'll help with the rest. 💙

Come solo. Meet the girls. Make the memories.

Your next adventure might start with you booking the ticket before you find someone to go with.